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	<title>Comments on: PaaV Podcast #6</title>
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		<title>By: Liz</title>
		<link>http://pancakesandavalium.com/2009/05/paav-podcast-6/comment-page-2/#comment-96</link>
		<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 14:27:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ashlee, you are so sweet.  :)  Comments like that totally make our day.  You rock my socks off.  Hehe.  
And I cannot sing GCN&#039;s praises enough.  They are fantastic.  I really should get back in to posting there.  

Girlboston, Maybe we are now merging with our listeners brains?  That would be fine with me, because we have the most rad listeners of all time.  

XO</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ashlee, you are so sweet.  <img src='http://pancakesandavalium.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Comments like that totally make our day.  You rock my socks off.  Hehe.<br />
And I cannot sing GCN&#8217;s praises enough.  They are fantastic.  I really should get back in to posting there.  </p>
<p>Girlboston, Maybe we are now merging with our listeners brains?  That would be fine with me, because we have the most rad listeners of all time.  </p>
<p>XO</p>
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		<title>By: girlboston</title>
		<link>http://pancakesandavalium.com/2009/05/paav-podcast-6/comment-page-2/#comment-95</link>
		<dc:creator>girlboston</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 12:53:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Addicted to your podcasts but this one was scary..it was like you took all my thoughts out of my head!

Loved your breakdown of the conversation with Fr Eyebrow!!!!  Also he is definately a poster boy for Just-say-no-to-collagen-lip-injections</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Addicted to your podcasts but this one was scary..it was like you took all my thoughts out of my head!</p>
<p>Loved your breakdown of the conversation with Fr Eyebrow!!!!  Also he is definately a poster boy for Just-say-no-to-collagen-lip-injections</p>
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		<title>By: ashleelynn7</title>
		<link>http://pancakesandavalium.com/2009/05/paav-podcast-6/comment-page-2/#comment-91</link>
		<dc:creator>ashleelynn7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 06:08:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So yet another amazing podcast! I already told you guys via twitter that this made my day, but I feel like this should be said twice: You guys are made of tons and tons of awesomeness! 

Dani&#039;s letter to Jill had me on the floor laughing. Too, too funny. Wealth of eyebrow talent, another great oneliner. I live for Dani&#039;s zingers. 

Liz, I have to agree with someone else who commented that I totally live for your laugh. I think it may be the best and dare I say cutest? laugh ever. Love it. And your comments about Father Eyebrow(LMAO) were amazing. Such a great scene and I agree with everything you said about it. JL delivered it all perfectly and just when I thought I couldn&#039;t love her more, alas she gives the greatest performance ever. 

I also wanna say a huge thanks for linking the Gaychristian article. What a great read and so interesting. I learned so much about something I really don&#039;t know a lot about, so kudos for that :)  

So in conclusion, you guys rock my socks and can&#039;t wait for the next pod!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So yet another amazing podcast! I already told you guys via twitter that this made my day, but I feel like this should be said twice: You guys are made of tons and tons of awesomeness! </p>
<p>Dani&#8217;s letter to Jill had me on the floor laughing. Too, too funny. Wealth of eyebrow talent, another great oneliner. I live for Dani&#8217;s zingers. </p>
<p>Liz, I have to agree with someone else who commented that I totally live for your laugh. I think it may be the best and dare I say cutest? laugh ever. Love it. And your comments about Father Eyebrow(LMAO) were amazing. Such a great scene and I agree with everything you said about it. JL delivered it all perfectly and just when I thought I couldn&#8217;t love her more, alas she gives the greatest performance ever. </p>
<p>I also wanna say a huge thanks for linking the Gaychristian article. What a great read and so interesting. I learned so much about something I really don&#8217;t know a lot about, so kudos for that <img src='http://pancakesandavalium.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>So in conclusion, you guys rock my socks and can&#8217;t wait for the next pod!</p>
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		<title>By: Liz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 04:17:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anne- Thanks so much!  Maybe you&#039;re right, maybe Father Eyebrow will get a storyline out of this.  They are bringing back Danny.  

Ali- Im glad you liked them.  :) I love how you say Dani is more of a natural from the gut kinda girl.  lol  Her notes are craaazy detailed, while mine are like bullet points.  Haha!  Anyway.  We&#039;ll see you back soon.  ;)  We love notes on our notes.  

XO</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anne- Thanks so much!  Maybe you&#8217;re right, maybe Father Eyebrow will get a storyline out of this.  They are bringing back Danny.  </p>
<p>Ali- Im glad you liked them.  <img src='http://pancakesandavalium.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I love how you say Dani is more of a natural from the gut kinda girl.  lol  Her notes are craaazy detailed, while mine are like bullet points.  Haha!  Anyway.  We&#8217;ll see you back soon.  <img src='http://pancakesandavalium.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   We love notes on our notes.  </p>
<p>XO</p>
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		<title>By: Ali</title>
		<link>http://pancakesandavalium.com/2009/05/paav-podcast-6/comment-page-2/#comment-88</link>
		<dc:creator>Ali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 03:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I listened to podcasts #2-#6 throughout the entire day while going about my day. Had comments as I listened but unfortunately didn&#039;t take notes like Liz. Wondering if Liz does lists too? I love lists. 

Overall love each of your perspectives. Love how detailed and analytical Liz is while Dani sort of comes naturally from the gut. Two great styles that work together. I was tempted to go spoiler free but think I would just go the way of Dani so not going to even try it. 

Great stuff and will definitely come back for more... but next time I&#039;ll keep a list of my comments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I listened to podcasts #2-#6 throughout the entire day while going about my day. Had comments as I listened but unfortunately didn&#8217;t take notes like Liz. Wondering if Liz does lists too? I love lists. </p>
<p>Overall love each of your perspectives. Love how detailed and analytical Liz is while Dani sort of comes naturally from the gut. Two great styles that work together. I was tempted to go spoiler free but think I would just go the way of Dani so not going to even try it. </p>
<p>Great stuff and will definitely come back for more&#8230; but next time I&#8217;ll keep a list of my comments.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 00:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I listen to anything and everything I can on Otalia and really think you both are terrific! ...Please keep them coming.  Re Father Ray ..... lots and lots of priests are alcoholics ...There&#039;s loneliness,heavy responsibilities and a great deal of self medicating to get through it. I don&#039;t believe he was kidding when he asked for the beer... likely more storyline opening up for him and a true to life one at that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I listen to anything and everything I can on Otalia and really think you both are terrific! &#8230;Please keep them coming.  Re Father Ray &#8230;.. lots and lots of priests are alcoholics &#8230;There&#8217;s loneliness,heavy responsibilities and a great deal of self medicating to get through it. I don&#8217;t believe he was kidding when he asked for the beer&#8230; likely more storyline opening up for him and a true to life one at that.</p>
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		<title>By: Dani</title>
		<link>http://pancakesandavalium.com/2009/05/paav-podcast-6/comment-page-2/#comment-80</link>
		<dc:creator>Dani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 19:07:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JCF - Okay, I love you for the Xena reference. The one thing I&#039;ll say about Xena, though, is that she rightfully received hatred and scorn from her victims. [nerd alert] - just like Xena forever altered Callisto&#039;s life for the worse, and Callisto could never forgive Xena for it...that&#039;s the train of thinking I have for Olivia/Jeffrey. The forgivness was contrived, unrealistic, and honestly...I just feel differently about rape. I think our culture has a pretty good handle on the fact that murder = bad. Rape, however, can still be gray-lined and treated like it&#039;s something a person can deserve/ask for through certain behaviors. There&#039;s still a question of what constitutes rape, and I think this storyline fed into that negatively.

I don&#039;t think there&#039;s been any question when Phillip is being BAD, or Alan is being BAD, or Olivia, or any of the other characters. We know their behavior is despicable. Whether or not we choose to forgive them and move on is up to us. But Jeffrey&#039;s behavior wasn&#039;t kept as BAD. He was let off the hook about it when it became about miscommunication and regrets about it. Alan and Phillip and Olivia still walk with their sins on their shoulders, Jeffrey was absolved of Olivia&#039;s rape.

Beyond that, we can just agree to disagree about it. No bigs.

I just had to follow up because of the Xena reference. It was like a geek batman signal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JCF &#8211; Okay, I love you for the Xena reference. The one thing I&#8217;ll say about Xena, though, is that she rightfully received hatred and scorn from her victims. [nerd alert] &#8211; just like Xena forever altered Callisto&#8217;s life for the worse, and Callisto could never forgive Xena for it&#8230;that&#8217;s the train of thinking I have for Olivia/Jeffrey. The forgivness was contrived, unrealistic, and honestly&#8230;I just feel differently about rape. I think our culture has a pretty good handle on the fact that murder = bad. Rape, however, can still be gray-lined and treated like it&#8217;s something a person can deserve/ask for through certain behaviors. There&#8217;s still a question of what constitutes rape, and I think this storyline fed into that negatively.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s been any question when Phillip is being BAD, or Alan is being BAD, or Olivia, or any of the other characters. We know their behavior is despicable. Whether or not we choose to forgive them and move on is up to us. But Jeffrey&#8217;s behavior wasn&#8217;t kept as BAD. He was let off the hook about it when it became about miscommunication and regrets about it. Alan and Phillip and Olivia still walk with their sins on their shoulders, Jeffrey was absolved of Olivia&#8217;s rape.</p>
<p>Beyond that, we can just agree to disagree about it. No bigs.</p>
<p>I just had to follow up because of the Xena reference. It was like a geek batman signal.</p>
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		<title>By: Lana, Snapper, Whatever</title>
		<link>http://pancakesandavalium.com/2009/05/paav-podcast-6/comment-page-2/#comment-79</link>
		<dc:creator>Lana, Snapper, Whatever</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 05:38:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nope...Dave Kreizman isn&#039;t the dude I knew in NYC.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nope&#8230;Dave Kreizman isn&#8217;t the dude I knew in NYC.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 04:48:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David Kreizman wrote the storyline.</description>
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		<title>By: JCF</title>
		<link>http://pancakesandavalium.com/2009/05/paav-podcast-6/comment-page-2/#comment-77</link>
		<dc:creator>JCF</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 04:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;if I can suspend disbelief enough to love Philip, Buzz, Billy and yes, even Olivia despite some pretty horrendous things they’ve done as *adults* ... I can do the same for Jeffery who was, after all, not much more than a kid, himself, when he committed rape.&lt;/i&gt;

Bingo, Lana(Etc!). 

Something I feel one must do in ANY kind of fiction (not just soap operas), is take its moral universe on its own terms.

For example: I&#039;ve spent almost 15 years now obsessing over one of THE WORST characters, morally, ever to be the &quot;Destroyer of Nations&quot; on TV (one &lt;i&gt;Warrior Princess&lt;/i&gt;, as is you couldn&#039;t guess). IRL? There isn&#039;t a deep enough pit of solitary confinement for her crimes (heck, that&#039;s just for the Gab-Drag!). But in the moral universe &lt;i&gt;of the show&lt;/i&gt;, it&#039;s a different kettle of fish.

The same with rape and a rapist. In my own personal ethics, there are CRIMES for which---if they aren&#039;t unforgiveable---condemnation, penitence, amendment-of-life and heavy-duty RESTITUTION are &lt;b&gt;required&lt;/b&gt; (translation: 20 to life, minimum!).

But this is Springfield. Here, if Olivia wants to forgive Jeffrey (w/ no jail &amp; no &quot;bail&quot;), that&#039;s her choice, and I don&#039;t think we, the viewers, get to second-guess her (UNLESS we see her choice-to-forgive as somehow hurting someone else, and I see Zero evidence of that). I respect too much where Olivia is at NOW, to want to second-guess her about what she did/didn&#039;t do, 3 years ago (much less, 23!). If Jeffrey *now* is someone Olivia chooses to be friends with *now*, then so be it.

Eh, I don&#039;t want to talk about this anymore. I&#039;m more about, let&#039;s get through this latest Rafe-induced drama, and onto more squee-inducing scenes! ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>if I can suspend disbelief enough to love Philip, Buzz, Billy and yes, even Olivia despite some pretty horrendous things they’ve done as *adults* &#8230; I can do the same for Jeffery who was, after all, not much more than a kid, himself, when he committed rape.</i></p>
<p>Bingo, Lana(Etc!). </p>
<p>Something I feel one must do in ANY kind of fiction (not just soap operas), is take its moral universe on its own terms.</p>
<p>For example: I&#8217;ve spent almost 15 years now obsessing over one of THE WORST characters, morally, ever to be the &#8220;Destroyer of Nations&#8221; on TV (one <i>Warrior Princess</i>, as is you couldn&#8217;t guess). IRL? There isn&#8217;t a deep enough pit of solitary confinement for her crimes (heck, that&#8217;s just for the Gab-Drag!). But in the moral universe <i>of the show</i>, it&#8217;s a different kettle of fish.</p>
<p>The same with rape and a rapist. In my own personal ethics, there are CRIMES for which&#8212;if they aren&#8217;t unforgiveable&#8212;condemnation, penitence, amendment-of-life and heavy-duty RESTITUTION are <b>required</b> (translation: 20 to life, minimum!).</p>
<p>But this is Springfield. Here, if Olivia wants to forgive Jeffrey (w/ no jail &amp; no &#8220;bail&#8221;), that&#8217;s her choice, and I don&#8217;t think we, the viewers, get to second-guess her (UNLESS we see her choice-to-forgive as somehow hurting someone else, and I see Zero evidence of that). I respect too much where Olivia is at NOW, to want to second-guess her about what she did/didn&#8217;t do, 3 years ago (much less, 23!). If Jeffrey *now* is someone Olivia chooses to be friends with *now*, then so be it.</p>
<p>Eh, I don&#8217;t want to talk about this anymore. I&#8217;m more about, let&#8217;s get through this latest Rafe-induced drama, and onto more squee-inducing scenes! <img src='http://pancakesandavalium.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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